This Eid my Aunt and Uncle came to our house. I bought a packet of ‘chapli kababs’ for dinner and gave it to my khala(aunt) to fry them. As she was frying them, few of them got burned a little. Anyway, later on, when we sat together for dinner, I took the burnt one and put it in my plate out of reverence for my guests..Uncle was sitting beside me and to my surprise he picked up the burnt kabaab from my plate and put it in his plate! I didn’t get it, so, I asked why did you do that? Instead of him answering, my aunt (his wife) answered: “He’s protecting his wife’s honor by eating the burnt one by himself!”. Woah! I was shocked at this answer SubhanAllaah. I thought for a moment and then said: “Now I know what to do when I get married! :)” and then we all burst into laughter! 😀
Quran referred spouses as garments, and the basic need for a garment is that it protects us and covers us. And when a spouse is a garment then he/she is a protection for other and covering his/her faults from people. SubhanAllaah!!
Iss Eid pay mairi 2 khala aur khaaloo hamaray ghar ae. Shaam ko main chapli kabab ka aik packet lay aya aur khala ko diya k isay fry kar dain. Jub woh fry kar rahi thin tou kuch kabab thoray say jal gae. Khair baad main jub hum khana khanay k lie baithay tou mainay jala hua kabab apni plate main rakh lia taakay koi mehman us kabab ko na khae. Magar main hairan hua jub mairay pas baithay khaalo nay usay utha k apni plate main rakh lia! Main kuch samjha nahi aur unsay poocha k aap nay aisa kun kiya? Tou un k bijae unki biwi, mairi khala, nay jawab dia: “Woh apni biwi ki izzat bacha rahay hain jala hua kabab khud kha k!” Woah SubhanAllaah main tou heran hi reh gya iss jawab pay! Main kuch dair k lie khamosh ho gya aur sochta raha aur phir zor say kaha: “Seekh lia mainay kya karna hay jub mairi shaadi ho gi tou! :)” Aur aik dam hum sub hansnay lagay! 😀
Quran mian biwi ko aik dosray k lie libaas qaraar deta hay. Libaas ka bunyadi maqsad jism ki hifazat karna aur usay dhaampna hota hay. Issi tarhan jub aik insaan dosray k lie libas hota hay tou matlab woh uki hifazat karta hay aur uss k aibon aur ghaltiyon par pardah dalta hay, unhain logon say chupa laita hay. SubhanAllaah!