Something that is not for you will not be yours, and will slip like sand from your hands no matter how hard you try to grasp it. Grasping is not bad but what if the things that are truly *meant* for you are waiting to be grasped by you but you are just busy in grasping the sand. Just let it slip. Free your hands from the sand and empty them for the “Diamonds” that are waiting for you in your way.
O who you are Patient!
Bear a little more, just a little more remains.
(Ibn Al Qayyim)